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20 Oct Posted by in • Jan Miller Corran | Comments

Gays and Lesbians Living on the Edge

Gays and Lesbians Living on the Edge

I was pleased to hear that the Pope has formally said that gay people are okay. We are so okay that the Church accepts the fact that we can love each other just like heterosexual couples love each other. In fact, we are actually good for each other. The Pope wants Catholics to respect LGBT […]

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Lesbian Humor: Best of the Battle-axe

Lesbian Humor: Best of the Battle-axe

Dear Battleaxe, I’m dating someone who I haven’t had sex with yet. But I think we are about to—any day now. The problem is, she wants me to shave my pussy because she is hair-phobic. Should I do it? Or maybe just trim the front? Dear ‘Business in front— party in back’, Sounds like a […]

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11 Oct Posted by in • Jan Miller Corran | Comments

Bringing Lesbian Films to Life

Bringing Lesbian Films to Life

This morning I was at Brava Theater Center in San Francisco. I was finalizing the plans for the Northern California premiere of Anatomy of a Love Seen on November 1st. Epochalips.com and More Than Friends Productions, are bringing the film to the big screen in San Francisco. I was at Outfest in LA when it […]

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06 Oct Posted by in • Robin Lowey | 4 comments

Lesbian Parenting: When The Kids Fly Away

Lesbian Parenting: When The Kids Fly Away

This is it, I’m here in Santa Barbara to drop my son off at UCSB and move him into his dorm. Feelings of fear and loss course through me. But there is sense of relief, too. After 25 years, I will start a new life, one that will no longer involve taking care of kids on […]

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Lesbian Partner is Angry about Lack of Sex

Lesbian Partner is Angry about Lack of Sex

Dear Dr. Corwin: My (lesbian) partner and I had a complete blowout last weekend, and now she says she’s done. She was angry because I’d just gotten back from a long trip, and for the first 24 hours I was home I just was into settling back, catching up on work, enjoying being home–but she […]

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The Lesbian ‘Gay Girl’ Love Tour

The Lesbian ‘Gay Girl’ Love Tour

I don’t know a single lesbian who hasn’t described someone they dated as crazy. Perhaps she was or perhaps she wasn’t but something about dating in the lesbian community always brings up that term. As someone who is committed to helping women take the crazy out of dating, I always ask lesbians to take a […]

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Why Lesbians are at Risk for Substance Abuse

Why Lesbians are at Risk for Substance Abuse

In my private practice, I often work with lesbians who have or still struggle with substance abuse. Some are newly sober, some have a hard time staying sober and many have been sober for a long time. Regrettably, lesbians are at greater risk for substance abuse issues and other addictive disorders than the general population […]

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22 Sep Posted by in • Guest Writers | Comments

What Has Your Anger Taught you?

What Has Your Anger Taught you?

The impetus behind the Notes on Anger series, which I guest edited for Zora Magazine’s summer issue, came from the desire to know how other black women emotionally and psychologically experienced and expressed their anger, while navigating the stereotype of the angry black woman. A stereotype that portrays black lesbians and women as irrationally angry, […]

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10 Sep Posted by in • Guest Writers | Comments Off

An Impressionist Lesbian Film: Aprille/Desirae

An Impressionist Lesbian Film: Aprille/Desirae

In the film Aprille/Desirae, Aprille is in a lesbian relationship with a married woman, Desirae, who is reluctant to give up her broken marriage because of the uncertainty the choice will entail. The short film is a snapshot of a moment in their relationship when Aprille finally decides to confront Desirae regarding the future of […]

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09 Sep Posted by in • Guest Writers | Comments Off

FREE ‘Lasting Lesbian Love Talks’ Tele-Summit

FREE ‘Lasting Lesbian Love Talks’ Tele-Summit

I created this complimentary, informative, fun, three day tele-summit to inspire heart centered, health-oriented LBTQ women who are ready to come together to find and keep Lasting Lesbian Love! I hand picked 12 experts to interview who – like myself – are leaders and like-hearted LBTQ women and allies who specialize in serving the world […]

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The Conundrum of the ‘Femme’ Lesbian

The Conundrum of the ‘Femme’ Lesbian

Since I came out as a lesbian twenty-five years ago I have had a plethora of statements and questions about me that no one ever would have stated when they assumed I was straight. In the beginning, I got the proverbial, “I never would have guessed you were a lesbian” and the “Gee, you don’t […]

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08 Sep Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off

Is it Anti-Feminist for a Lesbian to Initiate Sex?

Is it Anti-Feminist for a Lesbian to Initiate Sex?

What’s a very common refrain you hear when you ask a lesbian about her sex life? “Once we get started, I love it!” Actually, you hear a version of that about a lot of things, not just sex. “I didn’t want to go to that party, but once I got there I had a great […]

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The Sex That Dare Not Speak Its Name?

The Sex That Dare Not Speak Its Name?

Brave new world of e-publishing: We changed the title of our book. Not while we were writing it, not prior to publication, not before anyone had caught sight of the original title and cover. The book had been out in the world and circulating, physically and electronically; we’d read it from it at public events, […]

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31 Aug Posted by in • Wallis Stern | 19 comments

New Poetry by Wallis Stern ‘raptor’

New Poetry by Wallis Stern ‘raptor’

brutally, I will miss it our innocent bloodletting your busy handsome fingers casually blasé but playing heated games of yes and no whispering I want you take me against the wall take me with a secret gesture take me speeding on the freeway take me teasing talking dirty take me bathed in sweetness take me […]

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Eat, Pray, Love – Lesbian!

Eat, Pray, Love – Lesbian!

Being lesbian is a religion. It’s feast, fast or famine. It’s on our knees begging at the altar between her knees. It’s our tribe, our gaggle of gay girls and our fighting to be included in some social club, meetup, Facebook Group, marriage rights, equal rights and more or hiding in social awkwardness afraid of […]

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