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16 Jul Posted by in • Robin Lowey

Remembering Lynnly!

Remembering Lynnly!

Ever had a friend who was with you through thick and thin, taught you important things, exasperated you, but led you through each stage of life feeling like you were running to keep up? Well I had that with Lynnly Labovitz. Lynnly lost her valiant fight with breast cancer in the Fall of 2008. I […]

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15 Jul Posted by in • Robin Lowey

New Book By Carmen de Monteflores!

New Book By Carmen de Monteflores!

The following is an excerpt from Carmen’s new novel ¡Jíbara! that tells the story of Juanita, a jíbara, a poor, young woman from the mountains of Puerto Rico, who wants to become a teacher. She attends a rural school until a hurricane forces her and her mother to migrate to the city where they end […]

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15 Jul Posted by in • Jan Miller Corran

Lesbian Film Night & Dancing w/DJ Page Hodel!

Lesbian Film Night & Dancing w/DJ Page Hodel!

You know what the best thing about an LGBT Film Festival is? That once a year we get flooded with LGBT films from all over the world. One glorious week of films that we would otherwise never see. Then… 258 days go by and there is nothing playing at your local theater. Well, last year […]

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15 Jul Posted by in • Lee Lynch

Why Gay Bullying is Not “Just Teasing”

Why Gay Bullying is Not “Just Teasing”

I never put this in words until recently: I’m afraid of children. Crazy, right? Unnatural. Just plain dumb. About a month ago, while still digesting that news flash from my brain, I had a related revelation which was brought on by all the recent talk about bullying. Here goes: I’m afraid of children because of […]

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14 Jul Posted by in • Kim Baker

Lesbian Relationships: Learning from Your Exes

Lesbian Relationships: Learning from Your Exes

I am sitting across a restaurant table, having wine and catching up with my ex from a billion years ago. More than all the others, I thought she was the one that I would be with forever. Of course, I was 27 then, and I thought I’d be young and have a tight butt forever […]

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13 Jul Posted by in • Robin Lowey

Amazing Lesbian Musician Jen Foster is Back!

Amazing Lesbian Musician Jen Foster is Back!

Over the last 5 years, Jen has been making regular trips to Los Angeles, CA, to record music with her dear friend, producer Rich Jacques. It all began at a little studio called the “White Room” in Hollywood, and on her initial trip, in the spring of 2009, they recorded a group of four original […]

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30 Jun Posted by in • Jan Miller Corran

Not Quite Over the Rainbow Yet

Not Quite Over the Rainbow Yet

June 26, 2015 shall go down in gay history as the biggest win/win ever. Whoa. Rewind and let’s think about what the SCOTUS decision actually signifies. Yes, same sex marriage is now the law of the land that is if the states that are highly against it don’t find the dozens of ways to block […]

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30 Jun Posted by in • Guest Writers

Hey Texas! Laugh with 3 Queer Queens

Hey Texas! Laugh with 3 Queer Queens

They say Jeb Bush could get the nominee this time around.  They say it could be a dynasty. I say it’s a travesty. The only Bush I want to see in the white house is Hilary’s. Comedy is a great thing.  It is a healing thing.  When you laugh you disarm yourself and the world.  […]

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24 Jun Posted by in • Guest Writers

A Bad Lesbian Dating Experience

A Bad Lesbian Dating Experience

I’ll sometimes give the benefit of the doubt to a woman when a first date doesn’t always go the way I hoped. After all, people can have bad days, so when Janet’s preferred topic of interest, during our initial meeting, was her puppy I thought she might be nervous or simply excited about the new […]

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23 Jun Posted by in • Monica Palacios

A Vivacious Lesbian Vegetarianista

A Vivacious Lesbian Vegetarianista

I became a vegetarian for a dame. I know—the things we do for love. But when I met this lovely lady 22 years ago, my meat consumption was minimal. I was a waitress at a steakhouse and serving grilled flesh all the time made me shiver and my nipples spin. And then one day, the […]

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17 Jun Posted by in • Robin Lowey

So. African LGBTQs Represented at Frameline!

So. African LGBTQs Represented at Frameline!

South Africa led the world with its all-embracing Constitution, granting homosexuals unprecedented freedoms and rights. The film While You Weren’t Looking is featured at this year’s Frameline Film Festival in San Francisco, (produced by The Out In Africa Gay & Lesbian Film Festival) and takes a look at South Africa through the lives and experiences […]

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16 Jun Posted by in • Kim Baker

Lesbian Dating: 3 Tips to Pick up Women

Lesbian Dating: 3 Tips to Pick up Women

Alone in a new city, working full time and working on my doctorate (full time), I find myself restless for human contact. As I load my messenger bag and empty coffee mug into my car one Saturday after class, all I want to do is go home, put on sweats, order takeout, and watch bad […]

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16 Jun Posted by in • Robin Lowey

The Passionate Pursuits of Angela Bowen

The Passionate Pursuits of Angela Bowen

This is the story about a young black girl who came of age during the Jim Crow era in the 1940s and 50s in Roxbury, Massachusetts, and how her early home life and experiences influenced her passions, mission and strategies for survival over six decades. I am inspired by Angela’s story in The Passionate Pursuits […]

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How to Be a Happily Single Lesbian

How to Be a Happily Single Lesbian

This question seems ultra-relevant, given our tremendous focus on how to find and keep a mate.  Research indicates at least 50% of lesbians over the age of 50 are single, so are they all unhappy?  And common sense will remind you that many married people are miserable.  So should we shift focus from finding happiness […]

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28 May Posted by in • Guest Writers

Hello Kate, Goodbye Dave

Hello Kate, Goodbye Dave

Pope John Paul, President Ronald Reagan, David Letterman and I all began our professional careers within six months of each other. Pope John Paul is now a saint whose qualifying miracle was making the pedophilia scandal disappear. Ronald Reagan’s spirit has taken up evil residency in his Badger State mini-me, Scott Walker. David Letterman [retired] […]

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