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The New Art of Capturing Love

The New Art of Capturing Love

The New Art of Capturing Love by Kathryn Hamm and Thea Dodds is a great new book for lesbians and their gay and straight friends and families. A book that captures love from “until death do you part“ in gorgeous photography and beautiful writing.

How refreshing to see conventions fall and be replaced by the new images that reflect our evolving culture. This guidebook that tells gay and lesbian couples how to create beautiful, poignant, romantic, funny, authentic wedding photos – from the moment of their engagement and the preparations to the ceremony and celebration and the final toss of the bouquet (or make that plural: two bouquets!) Couples who plan to get married and are seeking inspiration for the best possible documentation of their big day can turn to Kathryn Hamm and Thea Dodds: they are in expert hands. photography (by a number of photographers in addition to Thea Dodds) and beautiful writing by Kathryn Hamm gayweddings.com guide the reader.

Wedding2The book begins by discussing the differences between same-sex and traditional wedding photography.  Same-sex couples, for instance, may not have family present for their wedding, they may prepare together, they may have married the same person already multiple times, may have been together for decades, may not be comfortable with public display of affection, and might not be legally marrying at all. No more big groom in black hovering over little woman in white. LGTBQ couples see themselves, present or pose themselves, differently.  Nothing can be assumed.  Will all gay couples want to hold hands in public? Capturing Love teaches wedding photographers a new sensibility toward a topic that has only existed for ten years and opens new doors every day.

There are tricks and techniques to loosen couples up and get them ready to be their authentic self in authentic photos.  And of course there are props, costumes, unexpected weather, spontaneous responses to a rainy wedding day, unusual and arresting stagings like rooftops or a fire escape. There are humorous snapshots, like the two ecstatic newly-wed lesbians on a New York escalator. The gay men in this book adopt eye-to-eye and tender skin contact, not standing shoulder to shoulder, as men so often do, looking out into the middle distance as they converse.  Great care is taken to show the couples’ natural affection by giving them permission to be affectionate.

So many of the photos in this album are effortlessly sexy and romantic, with their playful focus on shoes, for instance, or their commitment to breaking the “bridal bias” so that the focus in this egalitarian photography is always equally on the two people getting married.

The technical quality of the photographs is superb, with a natural and spontaneous look, although most of the photographs are posed.  There’s an inimitable photo of the bride in flip-flops surrounded by her male fashion police, pointing with comic outrage at the shoes. Or, how about flower-boys to give you a sense that the world has changed?  Or male nymphs in a romantic outdoors wedding, doting mothers and grandmothers, and double bouquets being tossed in the air. Just turning the pages of this book is an exercise in consciousness raising, an enchanted tour through the creation of a new gay, visual culture.

Renate Stendhal, Ph.D. Is an award-winning writer, writing coach and relationship expert with offices in the SF Bay Area. Her latest book is Lesbian Marriage: A Love & Sex Forever Kit, co-authored with her life companion of 28 years, Kim Chernin, Ph.D. Among her books are True Secrets of Lesbian Desire: Keeping Sex Alive in Long-Term Relationships and Gertrude Stein in Words and Pictures. Her cultural reviews are in Scene4Magazine and she blogs for the Huffington Post.

 

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