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Dr. Glenda Corwin  // Posts tagged as "Dr. Glenda Corwin"

15 May Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Lesbian Dating: 3 Ways to Deal With Rejection

Lesbian Dating: 3 Ways to Deal With Rejection

Lesbian Dating: 3 Ways to Deal With Rejection

Q. My problem with dating is that I don’t know how to end it.  Last time I went out with someone, I knew after the first date that I wasn’t attracted to her…but she acted so interested and I didn’t want to hurt her feelings, so I went out with her for several weeks. We […]

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26 Oct Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Can a Pill Cure Lesbian Bed Death?

Can a Pill Cure Lesbian Bed Death?

Can a Pill Cure Lesbian Bed Death?

By now you’ve probably heard about “the new female Viagra”:  Flibanserin, marketed under the name Addyi, promising to deliver sexual desire in pill form.  The pharmaceutical company had a clever marketing slogan: Women deserve equal treatment for sexual issues.  Who could argue with that?  And could this be the magic pill that moves two women […]

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02 Jun Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on How to Be a Happily Single Lesbian

How to Be a Happily Single Lesbian

How to Be a Happily Single Lesbian

This question seems ultra-relevant, given our tremendous focus on how to find and keep a mate.  Research indicates at least 50% of lesbians over the age of 50 are single, so are they all unhappy?  And common sense will remind you that many married people are miserable.  So should we shift focus from finding happiness […]

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12 May Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Sex and Lesbian Online Dating

Sex and Lesbian Online Dating

Sex and Lesbian Online Dating

Lesbian relationship and sex expert Dr. Glenda Corwin answers our questions! Dear Dr. Corwin: I just met a woman I’m very attracted to and hope to go out with, but I’m nervous about sex. I don’t have much experience, and have the impression she does. Any tips? Dear Nervous:  The best tip for anything sexual […]

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28 Apr Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on How to Speak Her Love Language

How to Speak Her Love Language

How to Speak Her Love Language

A lesbian woman weeps in my office because her partner has left her, saying “I’ve needed you sexually a long time, and you don’t seem to care.”  Their last conversation about this was 6 months ago–but nothing had changed. The woman in my office looked puzzled.  She explained “That’s not the way I show love. […]

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29 Jan Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Lesbians: Find Some Joy on Valentines Day!

Lesbians: Find Some Joy on Valentines Day!

Lesbians: Find Some Joy on Valentines Day!

Valentine’s Day is approaching, and that’s a mixed blessing.  If you don’t have a lover, you can feel like a loser.  If you have a partner who’s no longer a lover–you’ve drifted into asexual “friendship”–you may feel a painful loss of passion.  Even if you have a lover, you may feel stressed about getting the […]

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How Do I Stop Fantasizing about Her?

How Do I Stop Fantasizing about Her?

My first thought is “Why should you?” What’s wrong with indulging in fantasies for an unavailable woman? After all, that’s how romantic relationships start, with that lovely combination of attraction, desire to be close, and poignant longing. This wonderful  woman seems to embody love and passion. In the beginning, she’s a fantasy, and it’s like […]

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08 Sep Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Is it Anti-Feminist for a Lesbian to Initiate Sex?

Is it Anti-Feminist for a Lesbian to Initiate Sex?

Is it Anti-Feminist for a Lesbian to Initiate Sex?

What’s a very common refrain you hear when you ask a lesbian about her sex life? “Once we get started, I love it!” Actually, you hear a version of that about a lot of things, not just sex. “I didn’t want to go to that party, but once I got there I had a great […]

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14 Aug Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Are You Worried About the ‘Other Woman’?

Are You Worried About the ‘Other Woman’?

Are You Worried About the ‘Other Woman’?

Lesbian relationship and sex expert Dr. Glenda Corwin answers our questions! Dear Dr. Glenda, My partner has been spending a lot of time with a recent female acquaintance who shares common career and social interests. They meet at least weekly for lunch or coffee, and often talk on the phone or text. I’ve never had […]

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I’m Just Not Attracted to You

I’m Just Not Attracted to You

Here’s something that doesn’t need to be said:  I’m just not attracted to you. Recently “Sally & Sue” came in to talk because they hadn’t had sex in several months. Sally was very upset about it. She missed the warmth and intimacy of their early relationship, but was afraid that Sue had shut down permanently. […]

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