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LESBIAN RELATIONSHIPS & SEX  // Browsing posts in LESBIAN RELATIONSHIPS & SEX

Falling In Love for the 2nd (or 3rd) Time

Falling In Love for the 2nd (or 3rd) Time

The woman in my office was in tears.  She’d just had a romantic Valentine’s Day celebration with someone she’d been seeing for the past year.  They had talked about the thrill of finding each other, the joy in their intimate connection, the excitement about sharing their lives.  It sounded just like being in love.  So […]

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07 Jan Posted by in • Kim Baker | Comments Off on Mindful Self Responsibility in Lesbian Dating

Mindful Self Responsibility in Lesbian Dating

Mindful Self Responsibility in Lesbian Dating

I pull into the parking lot in front of the bar one Saturday night. Rain floods the lot, leaving an inch of standing water everywhere. I put the car in park, leaving the engine running. Windshield wipers going crazy, I sit for a moment, peering out of the drenched, fogged-up glass toward the bar entrance. […]

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10 Dec Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on The Best Gift? Your Sexuality

The Best Gift? Your Sexuality

The Best Gift? Your Sexuality

While looking for the best gifts during this holiday season, don’t forget a very special one — sexuality.   Even if it’s been in the lost-and-found, it’s never too late to re-claim yours.   Unwrap this wonderful gift, and you’ll remember how this touches your body and heart and soul.  And the best part is, it grows […]

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Lesbian Compatibility: Can You Have It All?

Lesbian Compatibility: Can You Have It All?

Is She the Right One? See Compatibility 101 Part 1 HERE What is Lesbian Compatibility? See Compatibility 101 Part 2 HERE Monogamy, money, living space and pets: if you’re compatible, can you have it all? I decided to ask Kim (we were on a short trip to Kauai). How about us? Did she think Match.com […]

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30 Nov Posted by in • Kim Baker | Comments Off on A Lesbian Breakup Makeover

A Lesbian Breakup Makeover

A Lesbian Breakup Makeover

For the past hour, I have been sitting on my wood floor, legs splayed about to make room for the bookcase pieces I’m attempting to combine. I stare numbly at the half-put together jumble of particleboard and Swedish instructions in front of me, realizing that half the shelves are facing forward, and half are facing […]

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29 Oct Posted by in • Kim Baker | 2 comments

Never Too Old For The Dinah!

Never Too Old For The Dinah!

“Aren’t you a little old for that?” A friend asks in response to my Dinah Shore plan: Drink. Dance. Flirt. Repeat. With a resolve that only life’s hardest lessons can bring, I smile slyly and nod. “Yes. Yes I am.” Later, as 7 friends and I, all in our late 30s, drive along I-10, I replay […]

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26 Oct Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Can a Pill Cure Lesbian Bed Death?

Can a Pill Cure Lesbian Bed Death?

Can a Pill Cure Lesbian Bed Death?

By now you’ve probably heard about “the new female Viagra”:  Flibanserin, marketed under the name Addyi, promising to deliver sexual desire in pill form.  The pharmaceutical company had a clever marketing slogan: Women deserve equal treatment for sexual issues.  Who could argue with that?  And could this be the magic pill that moves two women […]

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16 Oct Posted by in • Renate Stendhal | Comments Off on What is Lesbian Compatibility? Part 2

What is Lesbian Compatibility? Part 2

What is Lesbian Compatibility? Part 2

Is She the Right One? See Compatibility 101 Part 1 HERE So, thirty years ago, at the beginning of our relationship the incompatibility between Kim and me would have been detected very fast by Match.com, giving us warnings about each other. I gave a few examples in my last blog: Kim has a hot temperament […]

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21 Sep Posted by in • Kim Baker | Comments Off on 5 Things My Wild Summer Taught Me

5 Things My Wild Summer Taught Me

5 Things My Wild Summer Taught Me

I awake late one Saturday morning with a heavy head, slightly hung over and having missed a long run with my running group. I reach for my phone and tilt my head in curiosity at what looks like a spider stuck to the screen. I recognize it as one of my false eyelashes from the […]

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Is She the Right One? Lesbian Compatibility 101

Is She the Right One? Lesbian Compatibility 101

Kim and I met at a Paris café, a long time ago. We met there because both of us had picked this particular café as our writing spot. As you probably know, there are zillions of cafés in Paris, one at every street corner. So picking this one, between St. Michel and St. Germain, this […]

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