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lesbian relationships  // Posts tagged as "lesbian relationships"

Is She the Right One? Lesbian Compatibility 101

Is She the Right One? Lesbian Compatibility 101

Kim and I met at a Paris café, a long time ago. We met there because both of us had picked this particular café as our writing spot. As you probably know, there are zillions of cafés in Paris, one at every street corner. So picking this one, between St. Michel and St. Germain, this […]

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05 Aug Posted by in • Robin Lowey | Comments Off on Think Different: Exiting the Loop

Think Different: Exiting the Loop

Think Different: Exiting the Loop

I’m not referring to that old “poor grammar” Apple slogan. Did you ever go into a loop over someone? When you can’t get her out of your head? And even if she made it clear she doesn’t want to be with you, you still keep spinning on it? I found myself stuck in the loop […]

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14 Jul Posted by in • Kim Baker | 2 comments

Lesbian Relationships: Learning from Your Exes

Lesbian Relationships: Learning from Your Exes

I am sitting across a restaurant table, having wine and catching up with my ex from a billion years ago. More than all the others, I thought she was the one that I would be with forever. Of course, I was 27 then, and I thought I’d be young and have a tight butt forever […]

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12 May Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Sex and Lesbian Online Dating

Sex and Lesbian Online Dating

Sex and Lesbian Online Dating

Lesbian relationship and sex expert Dr. Glenda Corwin answers our questions! Dear Dr. Corwin: I just met a woman I’m very attracted to and hope to go out with, but I’m nervous about sex. I don’t have much experience, and have the impression she does. Any tips? Dear Nervous:  The best tip for anything sexual […]

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28 Apr Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on How to Speak Her Love Language

How to Speak Her Love Language

How to Speak Her Love Language

A lesbian woman weeps in my office because her partner has left her, saying “I’ve needed you sexually a long time, and you don’t seem to care.”  Their last conversation about this was 6 months ago–but nothing had changed. The woman in my office looked puzzled.  She explained “That’s not the way I show love. […]

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29 Jan Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Lesbians: Find Some Joy on Valentines Day!

Lesbians: Find Some Joy on Valentines Day!

Lesbians: Find Some Joy on Valentines Day!

Valentine’s Day is approaching, and that’s a mixed blessing.  If you don’t have a lover, you can feel like a loser.  If you have a partner who’s no longer a lover–you’ve drifted into asexual “friendship”–you may feel a painful loss of passion.  Even if you have a lover, you may feel stressed about getting the […]

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29 Dec Posted by in • Renate Stendhal | Comments Off on How to Have a Happier Lesbian Holiday!

How to Have a Happier Lesbian Holiday!

How to Have a Happier Lesbian Holiday!

Well, how did the holidays work out for you and your lesbian lover/partner/spouse? How happy was the time spent with the in-laws or with your own family? If you’ve read my recent blog about holiday grudges you know what I mean. I discussed a few essentials, but we haven’t yet focused on the interesting question: […]

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How Do I Stop Fantasizing about Her?

How Do I Stop Fantasizing about Her?

My first thought is “Why should you?” What’s wrong with indulging in fantasies for an unavailable woman? After all, that’s how romantic relationships start, with that lovely combination of attraction, desire to be close, and poignant longing. This wonderful  woman seems to embody love and passion. In the beginning, she’s a fantasy, and it’s like […]

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30 Nov Posted by in • Kim Baker | 1 comment

Why Lesbians Ignore Red Flags When Dating

Why Lesbians Ignore Red Flags When Dating

It happened one leisurely Sunday. My girlfriend at the time and I had spent the day at the spa, a peace offering for an ongoing argument. We were joking around and then, just like that. She punched me in the arm. And in that moment it was if all of the years of dating, all […]

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04 Nov Posted by in • Dr. Glenda Corwin | Comments Off on Keeping Sex Alive in Lesbian Relationships

Keeping Sex Alive in Lesbian Relationships

Keeping Sex Alive in Lesbian Relationships

Dear Dr. Glenda: My partner and I are arguing a lot about our sex life. We don’t really have one, except maybe a couple times in the past year. She thinks we should work on this, but when I talk to my friends they aren’t having much sex either. Sex has never been that big […]

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